I don’t know why I ever expect white queers to include qtpoc in literally anything without us kicking and screaming about it

this is a lesson I am doomed to continue to learn

mjalti:

me to me: wow u dumb bitch u can’t even do that —

Jenny Holzer, in my head: ..

me: …

Jenny: IT

me: before you say—

Jenny: IT IS—

me: I KNOW IT IS IN MY SELF INTEREST

Jenny, top of her lungs: IN YOUR SELF INTEREST TO FIND A WAY TO BE VERY —

me: tender, tender tender tender tender TEN DER I know I Get It I get it dammit

why did I listen to a podcast about gender done by cis people

why was that a decision I made

why was their only trans guest a former-military nonbinary person who thinks trans women shouldn’t be able to use women’s bathrooms or compete in women’s sporting events