afab trans and nonbinary folks can identify and present as femme and still have their transness taken seriously.

amab trans and nonbinary folks do not get the same courtesy when they identify and present in butch or “masculine” ways.

I am dramatically understating the problem. I am not the first to say this. I am not a voice that should be prioritized on these matters.

but goddamn does it piss me the fuck off.