all the doctors are friends (but not *our* friends)

umruik:

this is just because i’ve been having some conversations about kids and gender and transition and puberty-blockers and so on. and having some feelings about that.

(to get a few things out of the way as a preamble)

what i want in the world is for folks (of all ages) to be able to make and put into effect any decision they want about what to do with their bodies – which means, practically, working for there to be more and more possibilities available to more and more people. in the realms of gender and sexuality that includes access to all kinds of body modifications, whether towards or away from any particular socially recognized gender position, and also access to all kinds of options for reproduction, from permanently or temporarily preventing it to actively facilitating it. what’s important to me is the possibility of real, meaningful choice, and the removal of restraints on that.

probably because of coming up right before and after the arrival of antiretrovirals, i think about most of the access-to-medical-transition stuff as a “drugs in bodies” question, through the analogy of AZT. in the absence of much actual decent research on HRT drugs (either to learn more about their longterm effects or towards making better ones), we already know they’re generally shitty, but bad drugs in living bodies is better than dead bodies.

(and here’s the meat of the post)

so: in the current conversations, mostly things are framed as a fight in which advocates for kids’ access to puberty blockers face off against advocates of “reparative/corrective therapy” to normalize kids to their assigned genders. that’s how, for instance, julia serano sets things up in her mostly useful piece on Medium last year.

and that’s generally how things play out among trans community activists, parents, TERFs, and other folks outside the medical institutions involved.

but here’s the thing: that’s not a divide that exists among the doctors.

the best-known puberty-blocker doctors and the best-known “reparative” therapists work together, publish together, and generally see each other as collaborators rather than opponents. kenneth zucker and peggy cohen-kettenis, for instance, co-wrote the chapter on “gender identity disorder in children and adolescents” for a 2012 “handbook of sexual and gender identity disorders”. and that’s not an anomaly: even a mild bit of googling finds the two of them as co-authors on papers all the way from the late 1990s to the past few years (with at least a few also including ray blanchard in the credits). and that collaboration isn’t just on the page: well-sourced gossip tells me that before zucker’s clinic was shut down (finally!), he was known to send so many kids who didn’t respond to his “conversion therapy” bullshit to puberty-blocker clinics that he was considered one of their biggest referrers.

whether or not you agree with the analysis i lay out in the rest of this, if you care about trans lives, you need to think long and hard about that. not just the fact of the collaboration and mutual support, but also the fact that it’s not part of the public conversation (even the parts of it that well-informed folks like serano help to shape), and the amount of work that has gone into keeping it out of the public conversation.

Keep reading

I hope it’s ok to pull out one sentence from below the cut here, bc I really strongly recommend that folks read the whole piece:

what [these doctors] agree on is a vision of the world where there are as few trans folks as possible, and where the ones who do exist are as indistinguishable from cis people as possible.

skutertrash:

notstrongonperfection:

Is there anyone out there in tumblr land that has started transitioning after 30? I think it’s wonderful that so many guys have the ability, the means and the drive to do it so early in life, but I sure would love to connect with some older people. 

I started taking t when I was in my mid 30’s……I am 48 years old now.  Any questions?  Just ask!

I’m 32, had top surgery April 2017, started T in August

California bill would add ‘nonbinary’ gender option on state identification

epochryphal:

grace-and-ace:

ardent-waters:

bombchel534:

commandtower-solring-go:

trilobitey:

kanayamaryams:

“Asserting that California must lead the way on rights for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community, lawmakers on Thursday announced a first-of-its-kind measure to streamline the process for changing gender on state identification and introduce an official “nonbinary” designation for those who do not identify as male or female.

Senate Bill 179, from Sen. Toni Atkins, D-San Diego, would allow Californians to update their gender on birth certificates, driver’s licenses and identity cards without undergoing clinical treatment or getting a court order. It would also make California the first state in the country to legally recognize nonbinary as a gender.”

californians contact your rep

Call today:

“I want [the state senator] to vote yes on Senate Bill 179, because I support nonbinary people, and want them to be able to have IDs that reflect their nonbinary gender identification.”

(calling idea for allies/supporters of our nonbinary siblings)

fuck it up cali

fuck it up cali

fuck it up cali

PLEASE.  This would mean so much to me for it to pass before I legally change my info!

please please please, the more states that have nb indentification, the easier it’ll b to spread to other states

I’m going to cry this is amazing

so! this is both awesome and, not the only way this is happening!

the Intersex Genderqueer Recognition Project is and has been already filing legal gender marker changes to non-binary – and winning!

they have a small staff (5 people?) that’s mostly volunteer, barely/don’t cover their living expenses, but they’re filing pro bono (that means free!) and doing multiple people per county in one filing session with full briefs on the state of the law for the judges, using doctor’s letters that just say “has undergone appropriate clinical treatment” (which for some people is no treatment, this is just the currently-set transgender standard is a letter with Magic Words), and it’s already working.

you don’t have to wait on this law!  and this law is only happening because Equality California saw that IGRP was getting the momentum going and swooped in to claim the recognition – after six years of them (and the Transgender Law Center, and Lambda Legal) telling IGRP that “it’s not time yet.”

well, it’s time, and it’s already been time.

here’s their contact + donation info.  yes, they’re actively taking on people, especially in counties they haven’t filed for yet.  there are court filing fees that they don’t cover (~$475?), but if you might qualify for a fee waiver they’ll fill that out for you.

the more we press forward on all fronts (especially the original front!), the more likely we are to succeed.

California bill would add ‘nonbinary’ gender option on state identification