why was that a decision I made
why was their only trans guest a former-military nonbinary person who thinks trans women shouldn’t be able to use women’s bathrooms or compete in women’s sporting events
ugh ugh ugh some stupid fucking dumb shit anime blog I follow reblogged this huge nasty thread about trans people and FEMALES and MALES and having SUCH AND SUCH GENITALIA BUT PRESENTING AS WHATEVER IN PUBLIC and it was all about sexual assault and everything about it was disgusting and I NEED TO BLEACH MY BLOG I’M SO MAD I FOLLOWED THEM
Hey I understand that your pressed about some shit I said or just bothered by me in general but I’m really sick of y’all sending these kinds of messages to me and other disenfranchised people primarily black trans women everyone reblogs posts about the violence me and people like me face and then shame us for asking for help i feel although were never looked upon favorable until we die a grisly death get a mic.com article and you geeks perform some weird social righteousness circle jerk routine on the dash and make stupid glitter graphics saying “protect trans women” or some shit but when the girls not just me, bitches I don’t even like ask for help we’re met with such resistance and abuse.
I’ve been trying to do things career wise but you know people really aren’t trying to give the girls jobs like that and I’m happy people fuck with me enough to help me when I need. What kills me is people like you aren’t the ones helping us out its other disenfranchised people like myself giving and finding opportunities for each other. The only financial compensation and professional opportunities I have gotten have been mostly from other trans women or women of color like the rest of y’all just steal from girls like me.
People use my blog for reference and have stolen whole ideas from the black trans tumblr community at large but aren’t trying to pay us or put us on and most of us can’t get a regular job so what am I suppose to do? Nobody can survive solely on government assistance sis like if I need help I’m going to ask for it. I keep bringing this up but I had to do a art hoe thing at this really uppity social club and it was super weird to watch all these people look at photos of me in awe while I was drunk in physical pain because I can’t afford to get the molar I cracked extracted or my impacted wisdom teeth removed. I’m trying to make it but I just can’t seem to get over this hump and I maybe something will come from all the stuff that I’m doing but in the meantime I still need help. My mouth hurts and I can’t do much about that since I don’t have a couple of stacks to fix anything. You can donate to my paypal or cashapp IF YOU WANT TOO but again shit is optional but it would really help if people did.
I’m still in an insane amount of pain every day from my teeth so please donate if you can so I can hurry up and get this shit fixed
https://www.paypal.me/rrenee
https://cash.me/$rreneeward
A cut transgirl romance comic by Garun
This is good and pure!!! Trans positive manga is so good!!
lmao ya because calling me dumb because you’re too stupid to answer basic questions is totally original. god i hate these racist, homophobic, sexist pieces of shit that perpetuate white nonsense and are completely ignorant to how the world works.
You’re a dumbass bc you keep calling non-white people racist, and somehow think being trans is exclusively a white/het thing, it seems like with your train of thought you’re the only one here perpetuating white nonsense. Like others have said before go outside
let me get this straight: op is a dude talking over a black trans woman about her own experience
so basically the exact thing the original post was about
nice
actually i didn’t talk over his experience, i asked him if it’s okay for trans activist to talk over all these groups that repeatedly tell them to stop talking over them.
but nice try.
who’s “he”?
the transwoman you’re referring to, but you knew that already.
why are you calling a woman “he”?
I’m not. I’m referring to a male as he.
ohhhh boy. how old are you?
old enough to know that a male can’t be a woman. k bye.
honey please learn history before you talk like you know.
you’re talking about binary sex-based gender as an absolute, when 1. scientifically that is false, and 2. the entire concept is a result of white Western colonialism.
you seem super young so I’m going to refrain from eviscerating you but you’re being an asshole and perpetuating lies that not only hurt like hell but also get trans women of color literally murdered. cut the shit.
lmao ya because calling me dumb because you’re too stupid to answer basic questions is totally original. god i hate these racist, homophobic, sexist pieces of shit that perpetuate white nonsense and are completely ignorant to how the world works.
You’re a dumbass bc you keep calling non-white people racist, and somehow think being trans is exclusively a white/het thing, it seems like with your train of thought you’re the only one here perpetuating white nonsense. Like others have said before go outside
let me get this straight: op is a dude talking over a black trans woman about her own experience
so basically the exact thing the original post was about
nice
actually i didn’t talk over his experience, i asked him if it’s okay for trans activist to talk over all these groups that repeatedly tell them to stop talking over them.
but nice try.
who’s “he”?
the transwoman you’re referring to, but you knew that already.
why are you calling a woman “he”?
I’m not. I’m referring to a male as he.
ohhhh boy. how old are you?
lmao ya because calling me dumb because you’re too stupid to answer basic questions is totally original. god i hate these racist, homophobic, sexist pieces of shit that perpetuate white nonsense and are completely ignorant to how the world works.
You’re a dumbass bc you keep calling non-white people racist, and somehow think being trans is exclusively a white/het thing, it seems like with your train of thought you’re the only one here perpetuating white nonsense. Like others have said before go outside
let me get this straight: op is a dude talking over a black trans woman about her own experience
so basically the exact thing the original post was about
nice
actually i didn’t talk over his experience, i asked him if it’s okay for trans activist to talk over all these groups that repeatedly tell them to stop talking over them.
but nice try.
who’s “he”?
the transwoman you’re referring to, but you knew that already.
why are you calling a woman “he”?
lmao ya because calling me dumb because you’re too stupid to answer basic questions is totally original. god i hate these racist, homophobic, sexist pieces of shit that perpetuate white nonsense and are completely ignorant to how the world works.
You’re a dumbass bc you keep calling non-white people racist, and somehow think being trans is exclusively a white/het thing, it seems like with your train of thought you’re the only one here perpetuating white nonsense. Like others have said before go outside
let me get this straight: op is a dude talking over a black trans woman about her own experience
so basically the exact thing the original post was about
nice
actually i didn’t talk over his experience, i asked him if it’s okay for trans activist to talk over all these groups that repeatedly tell them to stop talking over them.
but nice try.
who’s “he”?
lmao ya because calling me dumb because you’re too stupid to answer basic questions is totally original. god i hate these racist, homophobic, sexist pieces of shit that perpetuate white nonsense and are completely ignorant to how the world works.
You’re a dumbass bc you keep calling non-white people racist, and somehow think being trans is exclusively a white/het thing, it seems like with your train of thought you’re the only one here perpetuating white nonsense. Like others have said before go outside
let me get this straight: op is a dude talking over a black trans woman about her own experience
so basically the exact thing the original post was about
nice
This is gonna start off sounding weird but stay with me for a second:
We really need to move on from the current performative culture of “no terfs allowed” and “reblog to make a terf angry”
Because that’s not a valuable solution to the underlying problem.
You know what would really bother trans exclusionary/exterminatory radical ‘feminists’? IRRELEVANCE. They’re just like the Alt-Right; their worst enemy is an audience that isn’t receptive to their message of hate and won’t give them a voice to keep spreading it. Instead of giving them a free pass to go back to their echo chambers and prey on young wlw that they can indoctrinate and radicalize into their transphobic cult, make it so that their voices don’t actually reach anyone in the first place. Deny them stable footing to build a platform on.
You know how you do that?
Build an alternative culture of radical acceptance and validation for trans women in women’s spaces and especially wlw safe spaces.
Don’t just toss out a “fuck terfs” every once in a while and think your job is done. If you actually want to be an ally to trans women, BE AN ALLY TO TRANS WOMEN. Make your spaces a safer place for us, and be VOCAL about it. Be consistent, persistent, and insistent on defining us authentically as women and make it obvious that we’re accepted and welcomed as such. And make sure you are boosting the voices of trans women in queer and women’s spaces if there’s any doubt that you don’t have the best information to hand out on trans issues, because misinformation about us is the best weapon terfs have. START DENYING THEM THAT WEAPON BY ACTIVELY PRESENTING A TRUTHFUL NARRATIVE ABOUT TRANS PEOPLE INSTEAD.
This exposes new generations to the reality of trans women’s lives and identities instead of letting terfs pick off and cultivate the vulnerable ones who don’t know any better and using the dismissive nature of performative allyship to convince these young wlw that there’s some gender conspiracy that’s letting men invade women’s spaces.
(Which is obviously insane just on face value. Can you honestly even imagine a cis man having to face the reality of womanhood for an extended period of time? It’d be a trainwreck. The whole basis of their philosophy falls apart in SECONDS when you just represent the lived experiences of trans women in an honest way. No cis man could live a day in a trans woman’s shoes.)
If you don’t have the energy to deal with these people personally, by all means care for yourself by keeping them at a distance. But NEVER believe that slapping a “twerfs can choke” in your bio is by itself enough to deal with the source of the problem, which is terfs preying on vulnerable young wlw by feeding them misinformation about trans women.
If you really want to be an ally to trans women you HAVE to present an alternate narrative of truthful information so these younger generations won’t be swayed by the false narratives that terfs are currently selling them.
Deny them their recruiting grounds by ACCEPTING AND VALIDATING AND WELCOMING TRANS WOMEN IN WOMEN’S AND WLW SAFE SPACES, STAND UP FOR US WHEN YOU CAN, AND NEVER LET TERFS CONTROL THE NARRATIVE ABOUT US. Make their voices irrelevant by exposing them for what they are: predatory radicals that use the same isolation and misinformation tactics as the Far Right to cultivate new generations of twisted, vile rhetoric and a philosophy of violence and hatred.
Don’t just “reblog to make a terf angry”. They take out that anger on US while you remain safe in the ‘terf-free zone’ you want your blogs to be.
Instead build an authentic culture of love and support for trans women and spread visibility for the truth of our womanhood so terfs can’t keep selling their snake oil to new generations of vulnerable young wlw who end up making comics about literally boiling us alive.
Reblog to start building that culture of trans positivity and make the world a safer place for us to live.
Reblog to validate a trans woman.
alder-knight 